Introducing We-Vibe Sync

Introducing We-Vibe Sync

Sync™ is designed to be enjoyed with a partner during sex. She gets powerful stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together, you both share the vibe. NEW Adjustable fit No two bodies are the same. That’s why Sync can be adjusted to fit your unique shape. There are two adjustable points to better target the G-spot and clitoris with more or less pressure. Sync fits comfortably in place even as you change positions during sex. New remote The remote can change vibration modes as well as the intensity in the moment. Either partner can use the remote and it works up to a distance of 3 meters. New We-Connect Features Touch, tease and turn her on from anywhere. Download the free We-Connect™ app and play together, even when you’re...
Hookup Problems!

Hookup Problems!

Hooking up is a true roller coaster of adventures and mishaps when you don’t have enough money for a swanky AF bedroom yet, and you definitely don’t have the money to live in a home without roommates. It’s a tangled web but somehow, twentysomethings still manage to get laid. Maybe we’ll look back on this decade fondly in the future, who knows. 1. When he’s just using you because you have an actual bed and it honestly feels like sleeping on a cloud compared to his mattress-on-the-floor situation. Ikea bed frames are not very expensive. A bed is not a bed if it’s just a mattress on the floor — elevate that shit and then go home and sleep in it by yourself, instead of turning a perfectly good half-night stand into an awkward full-night stand. 2. Not knowing if he’s gonna do sex like a horny frat boy who’s scared his dorm mate is gonna come home, or like a grown, adult man. Your 20s are a time of transition in a lot of ways. You get your first real job, you probably move somewhere new, you try new things … And while all these changes are happening, young men blossom from jackhammering, horn dog coeds into men who (hopefully) know how foreplay, good sex, and pacing work. You never know where the man you’re about to hook up with is in his own transformation. 3. When you sleep over but don’t have sex, and wonder if maybe he thinks you’re married now. And you just both kind of lie there, cuddling, wondering if you’re allowed to think,...
Guide to Using Dildos During Sex

Guide to Using Dildos During Sex

When it comes to sexy playthings you can whip out during a sack sesh, vibrators, restraints, or a penis ring may come to mind. Dildos? Not so much. “The average heterosexual woman tends to reserve dildos for masturbation,” says sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. But just because a lot of women haven’t doubled their pleasure with faux peen, doesn’t mean you should skip this sexual adventure. You can use them in everything from intense G-spot stimulation to prostate massage and double penetration. Intrigued? If You’re Sleeping with a Man The first step is talking to your guy about the idea, since you’re probably more familiar with dildos than he is. Bring up the topic by describing your vision for how you want to get that sexy hunk of plastic involved, says Kerner. For example, one of Kerner’s clients told her partner that she fantasized about the feeling of being filled vaginally while he went down on her. When her man heard that, he was game. Also: Treat him to a sexy show. Let him watch you masturbate and penetrate yourself with the dildo. Then, draw him into the play by pleasuring yourself with it while giving him oral. Get all up in him. Although prostate massage is becoming increasingly popular, it’s still unfamiliar to many guys—and it triggers a completely new feeling, almost like he has to pee or poop, says Kerner. “Rubbing his perineum (the spot between his butt and balls) can be a great way to ease him into these new sensations.” Have him lie on his back with his knees up,...
The Best Alcohol For Great Sex? It’s Red Wine

The Best Alcohol For Great Sex? It’s Red Wine

Booze, and red wine in particular, is listed as one of the top ten aphrodisiacs for love, but have a bit too much, and alcohol can turn from being good for your sex drive to being bad very quickly – don’t pretend you’re the only one who hasn’t had a few too many and then had a not-so-fun romp in the sheets. So what’s the ideal dosage for love? Let us prescribe it to you. When we first take a sip of booze, alcohol’s initial effects as one of the world’s greatest social lubricants begins to take hold. We feel looser, more open and often, much more relaxed. This is the liquid courage we hear so much about, and it’s why so many of us seem to have the most success when meeting someone out at a bar. At this initial stage, we feel more confident to take a risk – which includes talking to that attractive person across the room. It’s at the level of about one to two drinks, when most people report feeling the most pleasure. Alcohol stimulates the receptors in our brain, and at one or two drinks in, that slight buzz and warm feeling aren’t being overwhelmed by the feelings of dizziness, nausea and even depression, which can set in after consuming a good bit. It’s also at this light level of alcohol intake when we’re most likely to perform our best – drinking and driving is not the only thing you should avoid when drunk. And while all alcohol in moderation helps a bit when it comes to sexual pleasure and desire, none...
Single on Valentine’s? No problem!

Single on Valentine’s? No problem!

Single? Turn your Valentine’s Day from drab to fab! Unrealistic expectations can cause a great deal of emotional pain if you are alone on Valentine’s Day! I enjoy writing blog posts about love and happiness, yet on Valentine’s Day I want to acknowledge those who might be dealing with lost love. We have all experienced loss in our lives! Yet, no one really knows the pain of another person, even if we have walked very closely in their shoes. Today for those who are hurting I want to say, “I see YOU, I hear YOU, and I wrap my arms around YOU and give you a big hug!” Breathe. Breathe. Breathe. Now let’s move forward and make this a special Valentine’s Day that focuses on what is important to YOU today! 3 Ways To Love Yourself First This Valentine’s Day Unrealistic expectations will get you in trouble every time. Longing for what is not there in front of you rather than seeking joy in what is! I often think of the old saying, “God never gives you more than you can handle.” There is great truth in this even when it feels like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. Inch by inch you move forward with conscious intent until you can see light at the end of the tunnel. You have survived! Now what? “Love: You’re not meant to wait for it. You’re not meant to search for it. You’re meant to generate it.” ~ Michael Beckwith It is time to create a Valentine’s Day that will put a smile on your face. When working with...
Couples Fun Anywhere!

Couples Fun Anywhere!

We-Vibe® 4 Plus Let the games begin! The No. 1 couples vibrator now has an app. With We-Vibe 4 Plus couples can connect in new, exciting ways — whether they’re in the same room or on a different continent. Push play. Share the vibe. Use We-Vibe 4 Plus together — during sex or when you’re apart. She gets extra stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot and together you both share the vibe. Get more with We-Connect™ Get the FREE We-Connect app and play with We-Vibe products together—even when you’re apart. Touch the screen to control the vibrations and build intensity. Tease and please with custom vibes you create. Turn on your lover when you connect and play together from anywhere in the world. Build excitement with secure in-app voice, chat and video. Grab one just in time for Valentine’s Day – Shop...
Online Dating?

Online Dating?

Issues with online dating The main problems with online dating are pretty obvious. You never truly know who you’re speaking to, people can easily fool you and you can’t get to know someone properly unless you meet them in person. However, there are so many different platforms on which people can find love, that each one can come with its own set of problems. To break it down we’ve listed the main problems you might face trying to find that special someone using dating websites, apps and social media. Apps and Websites There are so many dating apps available now that we cannot keep up. Tinder, Happn, and even Coffee Meets Bagel, just to name a few. There is, quite literally, an app for whichever gender, sexuality or need you have. Dating websites, like OkCupid, Match.com and PlentyOfFish have been around since the internet was foetal, so in theory they should be the oracle in online dating. However, you might come across problems such as: Motivation: People use dating apps/websites for different reasons. Some want a quick shag, some want a rebound, and some want marriage, house and kids within three weeks. Don’t assume that everyone is on your wavelength. Communicate your desires truthfully otherwise things could get messy. Flirting: Some people like to test out their ‘flirting techniques’ on innocent users on dating apps/websites. Be prepared for some terrible chat-up lines and worse. If you feel in danger or unsafe, report the user immediately. Gameplay: Using a dating app can be very much like playing a game, what with all the swiping and scrolling and … slaying? I...
Sexual Benefits of Exercise

Sexual Benefits of Exercise

Exercise has a number of amazing, life-changing benefits. It can help prevent depression, heart disease, and diabetes, and it can also fend off weight gain and improve circulation and lung capacity. However, it might surprise you to learn that exercise also sets the foundation for a healthy, happy sex life. Yep, the elliptical can do more than tone your derriere; it can also improve your relationship and intensify your orgasms. Here’s how. Regular exercise boosts circulation, tones the body, and primes the brain for sexual satisfaction. It gets your blood flow pumping, which not only creates rosy cheeks, but also improves arousal. Lubrication, genital sensation, and the tingle of sexual excitement are all fueled by good blood flow. Exercise is especially beneficial for women, since it relieves stress and can clear the brain of mental clutter — and when it comes to women and sex, it’s all about the mind-set. During exercise, endorphins bathe the brain, washing away tension and ushering in positive, empowering thoughts. A regular exercise regimen will not only burn more calories, but it also releases endorphins, which lower cortisol levels and improve your feelings of well-being. In addition, exercise increases testosterone by adding muscle mass, taking your libido to new heights and improving your body image. Research from the Mayo Clinic finds that practicing yoga can reduce hot flashes by 30 percent to 100 percent. Yoga teaches the body to relax: Breathing and heart rates slow down, circulation improves, and it also emphasizes mind-body control, which can reduce the severity and frequency of hot flashes. In a recent study of women who successfully lost weight,...
More Hugs

More Hugs

Whether you’re wrapped up in the arms of your partner or greeting a friend hello, hugs have a way of making us feel warm and fuzzy inside. But aside from making us feel protected and loved, this touching gesture can also do wonders for our well-being. So whether it’s a simple squeeze, a big bear hug or some cute cuddling — there are plenty of reasons why we should embrace the act of, well, embracing someone. Below, find seven reasons why we should be giving more hugs. They make us feel good. The simple act of a hug isn’t just felt on our arms. When we embrace someone, oxytocin (also known as “the cuddle hormone”) is released, making us feel all warm and fuzzy inside. The chemical has also been linked to social bonding. “Oxytocin is a neuropeptide, which basically promotes feelings of devotion, trust and bonding,” DePauw University psychologist Matt Hertenstein told NPR. “It really lays the biological foundation and structure for connecting to other people.” More hugs = lower blood pressure. The hormones that are released in the body after a hug aren’t just good for happy feelings — they can also help your physical health. When someone touches you, the sensation on your skin activates pressure receptors called Pacinian corpuscles, which then send signals to the vagus nerve, an area of the brain that is responsible for (among many things) lowering blood pressure, NPR reported. They may alleviate our fears. In a study on fears and self-esteem, research published in the journal Psychological Science revealed that hugs and touch significantly reduce worry of mortality. The studies...
Tips for Couples in Long Term Relationships

Tips for Couples in Long Term Relationships

If you’re in a long term relationship and feel things are getting a bit stagnant — or even if you aren’t but would just like to mix it up even more — then here are some tips you may want to work into your usual repertoire of sexual activities. They’re all really fun, and all of them have helped us keep it fresh. 1. Have Morning Sex At Least Once A Week It has actually been scientifically proven that morning sex is great for you. Between being less self-conscious and the fact that your partner is already right there, it’s a great way to start the day. I love starting my day with an orgasm and watching my partner grin all morning for the same reason. 2. Don’t Be Afraid To Surprise Your Partner Even those people who are adamant about not liking surprises enjoy surprises when it comes to sex. I love to welcome my partner home with a sex-related surprise. Whether I tell him not to say a word as I pull his clothes from his body, or greet him with nothing but a sly grin, it’s fun for both of us. The key here is not to do it too often. Surprises are meant for special occasions. 3. Take An Evening To Share Your Ultimate Fantasies Once you’ve been in a relationship for a long time, you’ve tackled the awkward stuff and can truly open up — especially when it comes to sharing your fantasies. My partner and I are really open about what turns us on and accepting of what the other wants. We try...
Sex Positions that Men LOVE!

Sex Positions that Men LOVE!

You will LOVE these, too! Want to spice things up in the bedroom? Make his night and drive him crazy with these sex positions that men love. Ultimately, sex is about love and intimacy, so while the positions are part of the fun, the real payoff is the way various maneuvers allow you to connect and explore each other in different ways. 1. Woman on Top Ask your guy what drives him crazy in the bedroom, and we’re betting he’ll say it’s pleasing you. This sexy position puts you in the driver’s seat, and that’s exactly where he wants you. Take advantage of being in control and set the pace according to what YOU like, leaving his hands free to roam. The bonus? He loves having your curves in full view … so flip on the lights and give him a show. 2. Missionary This standard go-to is a favorite because it puts him in control, while still being intimate: your hips are free to do all the work, and you can lock lips and eyes with ease. And while he’s in the power position on top of you, the two of you can set the pace together. If you want him to go slower or deeper, put your hands on his hips and guide him. The best sex is like a conversation, and missionary allows you to communicate with your bodies. 3. Reverse Cowgirl This reverse variation of the woman on top position is the best of both worlds for your guy. It gives him the sexy view he gets during doggie style but it puts you in...
Making Love in the Kitchen

Making Love in the Kitchen

What better way to say “I Love You” then with a romantic, aphrodisiac filled, Valentine’s Day dinner? It’s all about the LOVE in your heart and the love you make in your kitchen. The key is to keep your meal light, romantic, and filled with magical aphrodisiac ingredients. Can good food put you in the mood? It sure can, especially if those foods are amazing aphrodisiacs with powerful health benefits. 8 Amazing Aphrodisiac Foods Apricots: A classic aphrodisiac, apricots are packed with beauty-boosting antioxidants like vitamin A, which also plays a key role in fertility. Beets: Known to help increase blood flow, beets were used medicinally by the ancient Romans as an aphrodisiac. Okra: Okra is rich in magnesium, which is great for relaxation. It’s also packed with iron, folate and zinc, all of which are important for healthy sex organs. Coconut milk: Aside from being creamy and delicious, coconut milk contains arginine, an amino acid associated with increased sexual desire in women. Nori: Sea vegetables like nori are high in vitamins B1 and B2, which are important for the production of sex hormones. Ginger: Ginger gets your blood pumping by stimulating your circulatory system. Figs: As the Doctrine of Signatures teaches us, foods that look like body parts tend to be good for those body parts. Ever sliced open a fig? And of course… chocolate: Who could forget this classic food of love? Chocolate contains phenylethylamine, a chemical that is released when people fall in love, as well as tryptophan, one of the building blocks of feel-good chemical serotonin. Source: Meghan...
Shunga Erotic Art

Shunga Erotic Art

Inspired by 16th century Japanese erotic art, Shunga products are created with the goal of enhancing intimacy and sensuality among couples. Shunga manufactures a line of lubricants, arousal and aphrodisiac oils, edible body powders, massage oils and creams and stimulating balms. Shunga’s Toko Lubricants are made with organic ingredients and are celebrated for their natural ingredient-based formulas. All of Shunga’s product packaging is covered in traditional Shunga art work, continually reminding us that human sexuality is an beautiful art form! Shop for massage oils, body powders, aphrodisiac balms and more here....
Better orgasms with Kegel Balls

Better orgasms with Kegel Balls

Would you like to experience better orgasms, rejuvenate your vagina naturally, have a healthier system? If your answer is yes, then it sounds like you can use some vaginal fitness to train the pelvic floor muscles. Kegel Balls have been proved useful to help achieve the results. How to use kegel balls correctly? What Are Kegel Balls? Kegel Balls are small ball shaped weights that are used since ancient times (approximately 500 AD) for sexual stimulation (by inserting them into the vagina or anus) and to exercise the pelvic floor muscles (Kegel exercises). They are also known by various other names including Ben Wa balls, pleasure balls, Kegel spheres or orgasm balls. Kegel balls are usually recommended by obstetricians and gynecologists to improve the elasticity of the vaginal muscles and for better control of the urinary bladder. Using Kegel balls helps in strengthening the muscles of the vagina, thereby improving sexual performance. Moreover, when present in the vagina, the balls constantly massage the vaginal walls; this feeling has been associated with intense sexual arousal. What Are the Benefits of Kegel Balls? There are multiple benefits of using Kegel Balls. Some of these benefits are described below: They help in making the Kegel or vaginal muscles strong. They increase the sensations, thereby, causing intense sexual arousal. They help in reaching orgasm much easily. The control of urinary bladder is improved. They can even cause erection of the clitoris during sexual intercourse. They help in heightening the sexual pleasure of both the partners. They also help in increasing your sex drive. You develop increased control of your vaginal muscles and will...
Lubrication 101

Lubrication 101

It’s really a personal preference on which lubrication to use. You can walk into any drug store and stare at 40 different kinds of lubricants and have no idea how they differ. Here is the breakdown I tell the couples and individuals I work with: Water-based lubricants (with or without glycerin) are the most commonly sold lubricant. It does dry out, but can quickly be rejuvenated with a few drops of water or saliva. It works well with latex condoms, unlike some lubricants that can break down latex. When choosing to use water-based lube, there’s a difference between those with and without glycerin. Non-glycerin water-based lubricants are a great choice for women with recurrent yeast infections or extremely sensitive genitals. These lubricants last longer than glycerin-based products and offer a gentle cushion during intimacy. They can reduce irritation to the genitals, are safe to use with condoms and don’t stain fabric. (Brand example: Slippery Stuff) Water-based with glycerin lubricants have a slightly sweet taste and are very slick. Some of these lubricants feature a warming sensation during intercourse. Negative effects of these types of lubricants include short-term effects and that they can sometimes cause a sticky texture. They are not recommended for women prone to yeast infections or who are diabetic as they have properties similar to glucose. (Brand example: KY-Jelly or KY-Liquid). Water-soluble lubricants contain oil and shouldn’t be used with condoms. Silicone-based lubricants are the longest lasting of all the lubricants. It is hypoallergenic and safe to use with condoms. Advantages of using silicone-based lubricants include their effectiveness for women with sensitive genitals, they can be used...
Perfect Netflix and Chill

Perfect Netflix and Chill

Netflix and Chill? This website helps you pick the perfect movie DateNight.media: the solution to your movie selection woes. If you’re planning a romantic ‘Netflix and chill’ night in with your honey, but have colliding preferences in movies and need a little guidance, visit this site to help mediate your decision. It’s super simple: you each pick a movie, and the result is a combined suggestion that you should both love! Visit datenight.media tonight and give it a...
New Sliquid Intimate Moisturizer

New Sliquid Intimate Moisturizer

Naturals Satin is an Aloe and Carrageenan based intimate moisturizer, and is the first Sliquid product designed for daily use, not just during sexual activity. Created for women who are experiencing regular or periodic dryness due to menopause, medication, or any other reason, Satin will provide long lasting, natural comfort with only a few drops. A proprietary blend of natural moisturizers, including natural extracts of Carrageenan, Aloe Vera, and Vitamin E creates a natural feeling moisturizer that emulates your body’s own natural lubrication. Sliquid Naturals Satin, like all Sliquid products, does not contain any parabens, DEA, or sulfates, and is always 100% vegan friendly. •100% Vegan friendly Waterbased and water soluble Glycerin free and paraben free Hypoallergenic and non-toxic Infused with Carrageenan and Aloe Vera Uniquely blended to emulate your body’s own natural lubrication...
Top 10 Erogenous Zones To Turn Her On

Top 10 Erogenous Zones To Turn Her On

From her head all the way to her toes, here are 10 of the top erogenous zones to turn her on: Her Head Have you ever been on the receiving end of a scalp massage and felt those warm fuzzy tingles from head to toe? That’s because the skin on the top of your head is loaded with nerves that are extremely sensitive to the touch. Stimulating the scalp in the right way releases a flood of feel-good hormones like serotonin and oxytocin. It also increases blood flow, not just to her brain (the largest sex organ, remember?) but all over her body. Next time you and your partner are kissing or cuddling, open your fingers wide and run them slowly through her hair, lightly stroking her scalp with your fingertips. Start behind her ears, at the base of the head, and circulate to the front, kind of like you’re lathering shampoo into your hair. Scalp massages are both soothing and sensual: They help release tension, and get her in the mood for other stimulating activities. Her Ears Although ears contain a ton of tiny nerve endings that send pleasurable responses to the brain, they receive very little attention in their day to day; this makes them an even hotter spot to stimulate during sexy time. Still, not everyone is comfortable with full tongue-to-ear penetration so the trick is to start off start off slowly and work your way up to more full ear contact. Start by lightly tracing the C-shaped outline of your partner’s ear with your fingertips or with your tongue. Gently kiss her earlobe or hold...
Ultimate Weight Loss With Sex?

Ultimate Weight Loss With Sex?

Planning a wedding can be stressful, many newly engaged women drop weight without even trying from the stress and anxiety. New York City-based model and actress Kerry McCloskey dropped 23 pounds in the six months after she got engaged, but it wasn’t from stress. It was from sex — lots of it! “It was during a particular time of romance and passion after I got engaged and I saw the effects that increased sex had on my body,” explains McCloskey. This epiphany led to more research and her new book called the Ultimate Sex Diet . “I felt better immediately,” McCloskey says, “because sex is a mood enhancer; the more you have it, the more endorphins that are released.” Endorphins are the brain’s feel-good chemicals. The Desperate Housewives Diet? According to McCloskey and a growing body of research, we can all learn something from the wanton women of Wisteria Lane on ABC’s hit comedy Desperate Housewives who bed-hop in and out of their marriages and all have rather exceptional figures. “It begins with thinking sexy thoughts and making sex a priority,” she says of her sex diet. “I recommend having sex three to five times per week, which can be accomplished by doubling up on the weekends,” McCloskey says. On average, sex burns 150 to 250 calories per half hour. “Since it’s free and so much fun, I’ve found making love is the ultimate exercise machine.” More than just sex, McCloskey also suggests toning exercises including the “Elvis Pelvis” to help readers and their partners think sexy. To do this move, stand naked facing your partner and press your...